Are you someone who is ruled primarily by your own likes and dislikes? Or are you someone who needs to know that the people around you are comfortable with the role or perceived role that you are playing?

Are you someone who wants to be liked, or someone who prefers to be respected?

Are you naturally a sociable person? Or does it take a lot of effort for you to mingle with others? When you mingle with others, do you find yourself behaving in drastically different ways depending on what company you're with? Does the person's reaction to you determine how you treat the person? If it takes a lot of effort for you to mingle, do you think to yourself whether that makes you a good person?

Please don't answer any of the questions - they are, of course, rhetorical.